The Finding Peace Podcast
It isn’t the bad things that happened to us that is the problem... It’s what we end up believing about ourselves.
It isn’t the bad things that happened to us that is the problem... It’s what we end up believing about ourselves.
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Episodes

Jul 6, 2026
Jul 6, 2026
13 min
In this episode, Troy L. Love explains why sleep problems are often a safety—not willpower—issue rooted in trauma and hypervigilance. He offers compassionate, practical tools to help the nervous system feel safer at night.
Learn three simple strategies—predictability, warmth, and gentle transitions—and a mindset shift from fighting sleep to partnering with your body so rest can slowly return.
https://pod.link/findingpeacepodcast
Jul 6, 2026
13 min

Jun 29, 2026
Jun 29, 2026
16 min
In this short episode, Troy L. Love explains emotional flooding, when your nervous system is overwhelmed, and why insight is offline during these moments. He offers practical, trauma-informed steps to recover: name the state, reduce sensory input, simplify choices, and postpone processing.
Learn accessible strategies to lower stimulation, create predictability, and return to calm before trying to problem-solve or reconnect. This episode is a brief guide to finding safety and clarity one moment at a time.
Jun 29, 2026
16 min

Jun 22, 2026
Jun 22, 2026
17 min
Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast with host Troy L. Love focuses on practical, trauma-informed tools you can use in everyday life. In this episode Troy shares a personal story about parenting and introduces micro-regulation: small, intentional actions to keep your nervous system engaged rather than defensive during conflict.Learn simple techniques — slow your speech, lower your shoulders, ground through your feet, and take a brief pause — that help you stay present, choose your response, and protect connection even when emotions are high.
Jun 22, 2026
17 min

Jun 15, 2026
Jun 15, 2026
12 min
Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast offers practical, trauma-informed tools with host Troy L. Love. This episode introduces the simple skill of tracking sensation to reconnect with your body without overwhelming your nervous system.Learn the difference between noticing and diving in, and discover pendulation — moving between discomfort and safety — to build choice and agency over your experience.A brief practice guides you to gently notice bodily sensations, shift attention back to your environment, and return as feels manageable. The goal is relationship, not rush: small moments of safety support lasting healing.
Jun 15, 2026
12 min

Jun 8, 2026
Jun 8, 2026
14 min
Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast explores trauma-informed, practical ways to support the vagus nerve and nervous system—not through quick hacks, but through repeated experiences of safety.Host Troy L. Love explains why connection, gentle rhythm, predictability, warm presence, vocal vibration, and movement help regulation more deeply than forced techniques, and how healing is a relationship built with compassion and consistency.
Jun 8, 2026
14 min

Jun 1, 2026
Jun 1, 2026
16 min
Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast shares practical, trauma‑informed tools you can use in daily life to support your nervous system. Host Troy L. Love explains how bilateral stimulation—like walking rhythmically, tapping left/right, or using the butterfly hug—can help regulate emotions, reduce overwhelm, and create space for clearer thinking. These short, accessible practices are designed to help you find more peace, perspective, and connection one moment at a time.
Jun 1, 2026
16 min

May 25, 2026
May 25, 2026
18 min
In this short episode, Troy L. Love guides a trauma-informed approach to breathing that emphasizes choice, diaphragm engagement, and gentle lengthening of the exhale. You’ll learn simple, practical steps—and a four-minute guided practice—to help your nervous system settle without pressure or performance.Perfect for moments of anxiety, overwhelm, or everyday stress, this episode offers accessible tools to reconnect with your breath and create more ease, safety, and presence.
May 25, 2026
18 min

May 18, 2026
Name It to Tame It
May 18, 2026
May 18, 2026
10 min
Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast offers practical, trauma-informed tools for everyday life. In this episode Troy L. Love explores how naming sensations and experiences—descriptive before interpretive—helps calm the nervous system and prevent shame-driven reactions.
Try the simple practice: notice "Something's happening in me," name bodily sensations and impulses, breathe, and ask what wound or need is being stirred. Safety and clarity grow from noticing, not fixing. You are worthy of love and belonging.
https://pod.link/findingpeacepodcast
May 18, 2026
10 min

May 11, 2026
May 11, 2026
15 min
In this short episode of Finding Peace, host Troy L. Love shares a personal story of lying awake, flooded with shame and intense emotions, and introduces a trauma-informed tool called containment.
He guides listeners through a simple visualization—naming feelings, placing them gently into an imagined container, and choosing when and how to return to them—emphasizing that containment is self-compassion, not suppression.
The episode offers a practical way to pace emotional processing, honor your limits, and return to connection and repair when you have support and capacity.
https://pod.link/findingpeacepodcast
May 11, 2026
15 min

May 4, 2026
May 4, 2026
14 min
Welcome to Season 8 of the Finding Peace Podcast with Troy L. Love. In this episode Troy shares a personal story of his abandonment wound being triggered at an event, and how the rhythm of pendulation—moving between felt pain and safety through connection—helped him slowly find relief and grounding.
Troy offers a short, trauma-informed practice to notice uncomfortable sensations, briefly touch the wound, and return to a sense of support. The episode emphasizes that healing is messy, happens through connection, and that you are worthy of love and belonging.
https://pod.link/findingpeacepodcast
May 4, 2026
14 min


