The Finding Peace Podcast

Selfish vrs. Self-Love

In this episode, we begin exploring the difference between being Selfish and Practicing Self-Love.  Selfishness stems from not knowing who we really are and thus we spend a tremendous amount of energy on ourselves as a form of self-protection. But, when we really know who we are, practicing self-love is our way of recharging our batteries so that we can continue to use our gifts and talents to bless the lives of others.  When we know who we are, it is so much easier for us to step out of our Shadows of Shame and stand in our light.
You are also invited to reflect on those who have loved you.  I'd love to hear your stories of how you loved someone else or how someone showed up for you!
 
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Addressing Anger

In this episode, we explore one way to resolve anger.  Anger comes from the sense that something is being taken from us without our consent or permission.  Clarifying what that "something" is helps us to tell a new story and therefore shift the emotion.
 
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Practicing Gratitude

It is that time of year when we have the opportunity to reflect on the blessings of our lives. But did you know that there are actually physical and mental benefits to practicing gratitude? In this episode, we review some of the research-backed reasons why practicing gratitude can be profoundly beneficial to your life. 
In this episode, I also mention Mr. Roger's Acceptance Speech at the Emmys for his Lifetime Achievement Award. You can watch his speech here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Upm9LnuCBUM
 And remember that A Year of Self-Love is now available to purchase. Pick up your copy here:https://amzn.to/2lCfOxZ
 
 

Fifteen Minutes with Mr. Rogers

Have you ever been asked the question - if you could spend 15 minutes with any person who has ever lived, who would it be?  One of the names on my list is Mr. Rogers.  In this episode, I share with listeners the profound message Mr. Rogers actually taught me when I had my fifteen minutes with Mr. Rogers.
I also answer Megan's question about how to develop self love and self esteem. I refer to my new book, A Year of Self-Love, that came out today, November 19,2019 at a bookstore near you.  You can purchase your own copy here: https://amzn.to/2mNJTun
#thanksmisterrogers #Self-Love

I thought the Tenderfoot Race was an Initiation Ritual

In this episode I answer a question posed by Randall, on of our Finding Peace Retreat Alumni. His question was, "Why do so I tend to get stuck in reliving responses learned from the past where trauma was experienced and is often triggered?"
I explain the concept of wanting a do-over and how we tend to put ourselves in situations hoping for a different outcome.  
The Finding Peace Workbook helps us change these patterns in our lives. You can purchase a copy by going to https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Peace-Workbook-Rejection-Abandonment/dp/1546458727/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=Troy+l+love&qid=1573068479&sr=8-1
You can also pre-order my new book, A Year of Self-Love by going here: https://amzn.to/2lCfOxZ

Horehound Candy, Watcher in the Woods, and Grandpa - Episode 13

In this episode, I reminince on the tradition of my grandpa handing out horehound candy and what it meant for a young boy who was scared of lots of things.  I also explore the four mantras of Thich Nhat Hanh that he shared with Oprah (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEUxFNkISnU)
A Year of Self Love will be coming out in November. You can preorder your copy here: https://amzn.to/2lCfOxZ

My First Anxiety Attack

I had never experienced a panic attack prior to that moment. When it hit, it rocked my world.  In this podcast, I share some tools to deal with anxiety.
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A Year of Self Love

I am excited to announce the upcoming new book, A Year of Self-Love.  In this episode, I share the epiphany I had over 25 years ago when I discovered why the old adage, "You can't love others unless you love yourself" was actually true.  As much as I had tried to believe otherwise, I began to see it from another perspective.
Also in this show, we explore three points of the Self-Compassion Moment.
1. Honoring our wounds and validating that they hurt.
2. Recognizing that we are not alone in our suffering and that there are others who can relate to what we are going through.
3. Encouraging ourselves to be kinder to ourselves during the process.
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Going Through the Door Episode 13

In this episode of the podcast, to moments of my life that had a tremendous. As I was listening to the podcast, I realized just how powerful the shadow of shame known as the Impotent One was present in my life. It is interesting to be able to look back and notice while there is another shadow of shame and to be able to recognize the power that that shame had on me. This awareness allows me to then identify what I can do to develop greater resilience to the shadows of shame as well as to recognize that I do not have to believe what the shadows tell me.
Can you recognize the shadows of shame that show up in your life? Can you also recognize the angels who were present in your life who whisper truths about your talents, capabilities, and potential? Who has touched your life and inspired you to dig deeper and step into your core truth?
 
 

My Dad Told Me that There Was Likely Someone Who Sings Better than Elvis

In this episode, we explore two Shadows of Shame that most people have a hard time admitting exist and don't realize just how powerful they can be in fueling disconnection.  
It is important to note that there is a difference between excelling in skill versus comparing our worth to someone else simply because they have a better mastery of any particular skill. 
How do the Shadows of Shame discussed in this episode show up in your life?  Drop us a line to let us know or to ask a question.  
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